What Should You Put on a Headstone?
Choosing the words for a headstone can feel like one of the most important decisions you’ll make when arranging a memorial. A headstone inscription becomes a lasting tribute, a few carefully chosen words that honour a life, reflect personality, and offer comfort to those who visit.
At Gaunts of Wollaston, we often guide families through this process, helping them create something meaningful and personal.
The Essential Information
Most headstones include the following:
- Full name
- Date of birth and date of death
- A simple phrase such as “Beloved Husband and Father”
This ensures the memorial is clear, respectful, and timeless.
Personal Messages & Epitaphs
Many families choose to add a short message beneath the main details. This is often called an epitaph. It can reflect faith, love, personality, or cherished memories.
Some popular examples include:
- Forever in our hearts
- Reunited with loved ones
- A life well lived
- Gone but never forgotten
You may also choose something more personal, such as a favourite saying, a line of poetry, or even a private family phrase.
Religious Verses or Spiritual Quotes
For those with faith, a Bible verse or spiritual message can provide comfort. Common choices include:
- The Lord is my shepherd
- Safe in God’s keeping
- Resting in peace
If your loved one followed a particular faith, we can help ensure the inscription reflects those beliefs appropriately.
Symbols & Imagery
Headstones are not limited to words. Many families choose meaningful symbols, such as:
- Crosses or other religious emblems
- Hearts
- Flowers (roses and lilies are popular choices)
- Doves or angels
Symbols can often say as much as words, particularly when space is limited.
Practical Considerations
Before finalising your inscription, it’s important to consider:
- Cemetery regulations – Some churchyards and cemeteries have restrictions on wording, materials, or design.
- Space limitations – Longer messages may require larger stones or different layouts.
- Future additions – Some families choose wording that allows space for a partner’s details later on.
Taking time to carefully plan the layout ensures the inscription remains clear and balanced.
Take Your Time
There is no need to rush this decision. Choosing what to put on a headstone is deeply personal, and it’s perfectly normal to draft several versions before settling on the right words.
At Gaunts of Wollaston, we are here to provide gentle guidance and practical advice, helping you create a tribute that truly reflects your loved one’s life.
