Scattering Ashes: Laws, Locations, and Ideas
Cremation is now the most common choice for families in the UK, and one of the most meaningful decisions afterwards is what to do with a loved one’s ashes. For many families, scattering ashes feels like a final act of remembrance and release. At Gaunts of Wollaston Funeral Directors, we often support families with guidance on the legal requirements, suitable locations, and thoughtful ideas for scattering ashes.
The Law on Scattering Ashes in the UK
The good news is that there are very few restrictions on where ashes can be scattered in the UK. Families do not need special permission for scattering ashes in most open spaces, but it is always important to be respectful. Key points to keep in mind include:
- Private land: You must have the landowner’s permission before scattering ashes. This includes farmland, gardens, and private estates.
- Rivers and seas: You do not need a licence to scatter ashes in rivers, lakes, or the sea, but you should avoid areas where people swim or fish. The Environment Agency asks that ashes are scattered away from buildings, marinas, or water intakes.
- Public places: Parks, woodland, and beauty spots often allow scattering but may require permission from the local authority.
- Churchyards and cemeteries: Many allow ashes to be scattered or buried in designated areas, but you will need to check with the individual parish or council.
Popular Locations for Scattering Ashes
Families often choose a place that held special meaning to their loved one. Some ideas include:
- A favourite walking spot or nature reserve
- Local beauty spots in the Black Country or Worcestershire countryside
- A garden of remembrance at a crematorium or cemetery
- At sea or along a riverbank
- In the family garden (with permission of the property owner)
Creative and Meaningful Ideas
While many families simply scatter ashes in a chosen location, there are also more personal ways to make the moment memorable:
- Scatter tubes or biodegradable urns: Designed to make scattering ashes easier and more environmentally friendly.
- Planting a memorial tree: Ashes can be combined with soil when planting a tree or flowerbed as a living tribute.
- Ashes in fireworks: Some companies can incorporate ashes into fireworks for a celebratory farewell.
- Keepsakes: Families may choose to scatter some ashes but keep a portion in jewellery, paperweights, or keepsake urns.
- Multiple locations: Ashes can be divided so that different family members can scatter them in places meaningful to them.
Tips for Scattering Ashes
- Check the wind direction to avoid ashes blowing back.
- Choose a quiet time to avoid crowds if in a public place.
- Say a few words, read a poem, or play music to make the moment personal.
- Consider inviting only close family and friends, or holding a larger gathering depending on your loved one’s wishes.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is it legal to scatter ashes anywhere?
Not anywhere — while most open spaces are fine, you must always seek permission from the landowner for private property.
Can ashes be scattered on water?
Yes. Ashes can be scattered at sea, on rivers, or on lakes, as long as you are respectful and follow Environment Agency guidelines.
Can ashes be split between family members?
Yes. Many families divide ashes so different relatives can keep a portion or scatter them in different locations.
Do you need permission to scatter ashes in your own garden?
No. If you own the property, you can scatter ashes there. It’s worth remembering, however, that the ashes will stay there even if you move home.
Compassionate Support from Gaunts of Wollaston
Scattering ashes is a deeply personal choice, and there is no “right” or “wrong” way to do it. At Gaunts of Wollaston Funeral Directors, we are here to guide families through the practicalities and help them create a farewell that reflects their loved one’s life and wishes.
